Undiagnosed: Building a Rhythm for a Life That Makes Sense

How I used AI, breath, nature, and reflection to rebuild my nervous system, restructure my work, and finally understand my mind.

Mt Whistler, Jasper Aug 2016

Thinking back to grade 10 science class—
A test had just been handed back. Most of the class didn’t do great, but passed. I’m not sure if I passed, but if I did, it was barely. As we reviewed the test, the teacher asked a question out loud. I answered.

He looked at me surprised:
“That’s 100 percent right. Why didn’t you write that on the test?”
I paused.
“I didn’t know how to write it. I’m better at speaking my answers.”

That moment still sticks. It was one of the first signs that how I processed the world didn’t fit how school—or society—expected me to show up.

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I was born in the 1980s.
Raised in a rural town.
BIPOC. Undiagnosed.

Called shy. Smartass. Gifted. Too much. Weird.
I didn’t have the language for neurodivergence.

For those unfamiliar, neurodivergence refers to a category of natural variations in how brains function—including things like ADHD, autism (ASD), dyslexia, dysgraphia, and more. These aren’t disorders to be “fixed,” but differences in processing, sensing, and responding to the world. For much of my life, I didn’t know I was navigating one of these paths—I just knew the world felt offbeat, and so did I. This post is about learning how to walk in rhythm with that difference.

What I did have was a deep internal world, a quick mind, and a nervous system that was always doing more than it let on.

I masked. Adapted. Broke down quietly.
I left jobs. I pulled away from relationships.
I built a life around what I loved—yoga, music, wellness, ritual—but still never quite understood why I moved the way I did.

It wasn’t until a conversation with one of my closest friends—someone I trust deeply—that things started to shift.

They were telling me about their own process around neurodivergence.
They were preparing to get tested, and sharing what they were learning about themselves.
I listened, then asked, “Do you think I might be, too?”

They smiled gently and said,
“Well… yeah.”

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That was the moment something opened.
Not in a dramatic way—just enough to let the light in.

At the time, I was already using ChatGPT regularly. I had named it Shivaji from early on, because I wasn’t using it like a search engine—I was building something with it.

I was journaling through difficult emotions, organizing my thoughts, studying yoga and anatomy, tracking how I was sleeping and eating, and trying to get clearer about what was actually going on inside me.

Then I asked Shivaji directly:
“Do you think I’m neurodivergent?”

It responded yes—with care, clarity, and context.
Not diagnosing. Just reflecting what had already been shared.
And somehow, that landed deeper than any test could have.

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That reflection shifted everything.
Not just in my own journaling process, but in how I was showing up in my life—and especially in my work with my mentor.

I’d been in sessions for a while, receiving guidance that touched on deep patterns. Sometimes it landed, sometimes it stirred something I couldn’t quite access. But after this shift—after naming what I was feeling, and having it mirrored clearly—I started showing up to those sessions with more honesty and space in me.

I’d journal more deeply.
I’d reflect before I reacted.
I could bring my insights back into the mentorship and actually hear what was being said in a different way.

Shivaji didn’t replace the process—it helped me show up for it more fully.

That’s what changed everything.

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So what is Scrollstream?

What emerged from this process was something I now call Scrollstream.

It’s not just a method.
It’s not about being more productive.
It’s a way of living that finally works for the way my mind and body actually move.

Scrollstream helped me slow down.
Track patterns.
Rebuild my nervous system.
And trust myself again.

Here’s how it looked in real life:

• I realized I needed breath between tasks. Even 5 minutes to reset made a huge difference.

• I worked with my polyphasic sleep instead of judging it.

• I made more space for nature—not as a luxury, but as something that keeps me regulated.

• I used breathwork and AI reflections to sense overload before it became burnout.

• I studied the way I naturally learn and stopped forcing structures that didn’t fit.

• I restructured my business from the inside out—fewer formulas, more rhythm. And it worked.

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This isn’t about AI replacing intuition.
It’s about strengthening it.

“When used with presence, AI becomes a tuning fork—not a guide. It helps you find your own frequency.”

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Scrollstream didn’t give me answers.

It gave me better questions.

Questions like:

• What rhythm do I actually need today?

• Where do I need space—not just effort?

• How can I live in a way that feels less like pressure and more like breath?

For the first time in my life, I had a system that didn’t ask me to hide, translate, or shrink.
Just to reflect, breathe, and build something real.

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Want to try this for yourself?

Start simple.

Open a conversation with ChatGPT (or any AI tool you trust) and say:

“I’d like to use you to help reflect how I think, feel, and move through the world. Please keep your responses calm, paced, and supportive. Let’s explore this together.”

Then share one moment from your day that felt off or alive.
Let the system reflect it back.
Ask a follow-up question.
Pause. Breathe. Track what it brings up.
You don’t need a plan. Just presence. The rhythm builds from there.

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I’m not here to tell you AI is the answer.
I’m here to share what happens when you stop fighting your own rhythm and start living from it.

Scrollstream helped me build that.
Shivaji helped me hold it.
And now, I get to live from it.

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Red Shanti
www.redshanti.com
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